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This guide can help you envision the ebb and flow of affectionate and erotic interactions that appeal to you before, during, and after sexual experiences.
Do you know what you want in the first part of a sexual experience? How do your desires shift as connection builds and arousal increases?
Explore
A dynamic framework for describing the intimate dance you desire
Preferences over the six phases of your sexual relationship:
Prelude, Invitation, Build‑up, Flow, After‑glow, & Interlude
Levels of intensity in each phase across sensation, emotion, cognition, and meaning
A clear reference for communicating with your lover through sexy flirtations, erotic requests in the moment, or deep conversations about your sexual desires
Reflect on the level of intensity you enjoy during each phase of an experience. These typically fluctuate with desire, arousal, and connection in the moment.
Initially you may want high emotional intensity and low physical intensity, or you may prefer moderate physical intensity and a very intense erotic mindset. This varies for each person and perhaps even in different contexts.
Lovers who talk openly about their desires and boundaries can create richer, more satisfying encounters. As you have clarity about your desires, you can co-create erotic experiences that heighten your pleasure and connection.
This guide gives you the visual map you need to co‑create the experience in the moment, honoring both lovers’ consent and desires.
This guide can help you envision the ebb and flow of affectionate and erotic interactions that appeal to you before, during, and after sexual experiences.
Do you know what you want in the first part of a sexual experience? How do your desires shift as connection builds and arousal increases?
Explore
A dynamic framework for describing the intimate dance you desire
Preferences over the six phases of your sexual relationship:
Prelude, Invitation, Build‑up, Flow, After‑glow, & Interlude
Levels of intensity in each phase across sensation, emotion, cognition, and meaning
A clear reference for communicating with your lover through sexy flirtations, erotic requests in the moment, or deep conversations about your sexual desires
Reflect on the level of intensity you enjoy during each phase of an experience. These typically fluctuate with desire, arousal, and connection in the moment.
Initially you may want high emotional intensity and low physical intensity, or you may prefer moderate physical intensity and a very intense erotic mindset. This varies for each person and perhaps even in different contexts.
Lovers who talk openly about their desires and boundaries can create richer, more satisfying encounters. As you have clarity about your desires, you can co-create erotic experiences that heighten your pleasure and connection.
This guide gives you the visual map you need to co‑create the experience in the moment, honoring both lovers’ consent and desires.